We invest years and many thousands of dollars preparing for a career that we'll probably change many times before we reach age 65.

We invest many thousands of dollars and up to two years or more to plan for one day in our lives - our wedding day.

And then what?

We hope that everything works out and that we beat "the odds."

Divorce is a real fear for almost every couple getting married, and doesn't end unless you make a proactive choice now.